Archive for November, 2020


Well, we survived the strangest Thanksgiving ever. With the pandemic, one day blends into the next and often, we don’t even know what day it is.  While the days drag on, time also seems to be passing quickly—this is the LONGEST-SHORTEST TIME.  (FYI: That is the name of a podcast focusing on parenting, another “long-short” experience.)

The other day, I heard an interview with a celebrity, who was talking about his rigorous exercise regime during the pandemic. He said, “At this point, it’s not about vanity, it’s about sanity.” I couldn’t agree more.

This pandemic is stressful for all of us. Even if you’re convincing yourself that you’re “fine”, you’re not. (I tried that and it didn’t work!) The best way to combat stress is to MOVE your body. I know it is getting more challenging with the darkness and the colder weather. The problem is, if you don’t move, you will actually feel physically and mentally worse. And this starts the negative cycle: you don’t feel great, so you don’t want to move, and you don’t want to move because you don’t feel great. I am telling you that a positive cycle is also possible: The more you move, the better you will feel and the better you feel, the more you will want to move.

Given that there is no relief on the immediate horizon, if you have been stuck, it’s time to get going. The most important thing is consistency so you are going to have to experiment to see what form of exercise will work best for you in this pandemic. Can you safely see a trainer, who is not a gym? Can you find an exercise zoom class? Perhaps try a YouTube video? Invest in a peloton? Get some warm clothing so you can still exercise outside? Don’t get overly focused on what “the best” exercise regime is. The best one is the one you enjoy because then you’ll do it! 

Exercise is a natural antidepressant. Like most things, it is not a panacea and will not make you feel ALL better. I’m moving around like crazy but still have plenty of bad days. However, it will definitely take the edge off and will definitely help you de-stress and make you feel energized. I say…….strive to stay sane and give it a try!

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In the good ole days, if you were up a few pounds, all you needed to do was cut calories and, voila, the weight would come off. This method worked every time. Then, one day it stopped working. HOW COME? 

Well, let’s just add this to the list of the “cons of aging”. I’m seeing this happen more and more with my clients over fifty, where cutting calories no longer promotes weight loss. This leads to A LOT of frustration. The solution?  Instead of cutting calories, you need to reduce your intake of refined carbohydrates and sugar and add healthy fat.

As you age, you can become more sensitive to carbohydrates. This sensitivity starts a domino effect: Too much sugar leads to chronic inflammation; chronic inflammation can lead to becoming insulin resistant; both of these factors prevent you from losing weight because you become much more efficient at storing fat.

Here’s something fascinating: When I encourage my clients to add more healthy fat to their diets, most of them BLANCH at the idea. I can even see the fear and panic through their masks! This is probably because we came of age in the “low-fat era”. We were told that fat was bad.  Product after product proudly displayed “low-fat” or “fat-free” disclaimers. To make lower fat foods taste good, food companies had to add sugar for palatability. In spite of the low-fat craze, Americans got fatter. Even though we now understand that sugar is the real culprit, we still carry that emotional fear of fat.

Healthy fats are unsaturated. Unsaturated fats (monounsaturated and polyunsaturated fatty acids), come from plant sources, and stay liquid at room temperature. They are not only an essential part of your diet, but have more than 2x the calories compared to protein and carbohydrates. That’s why fat is filling! This means that a little bit of fat goes a long way. Unsaturated fats can be found in in nuts, nut butter, avocados, olive oil, and fatty fish. These are the fats that I want you to eat. AND, I don’t want you to be afraid to eat them.

I want to give you a couple of examples of what I’m taking about.

Example 1: Let’s say you love to eat 2 slices of whole wheat toast for breakfast with ¼ of an avocado. I would much prefer, 1 slice of toast and ½ of an avocado.

Example 2: Your favorite breakfast is ¾ cup of oats for oatmeal served with 1 cup of blueberries and sprinkled with brown sugar. I would prefer, ½ cup of oats, ½ cup of blueberries, ¼ cup of chopped nuts and sprinkled with chia seeds.

Notice–in both of these examples, I cut down the carbs and added healthy fat. Often, when I make these suggestions, the first question I hear is, “Isn’t this just too fattening?” The answer is no. If you are trying to lose weight and are stuck, you need to reduce those carbs. Adding healthy fat will increase satiety and satisfaction.

I am not suggesting for you to have a fat “free for all”. Remember—fat is calorically dense so you must watch your portions. If you’re used to using a “shmear” of peanut butter on a slice of toast, but feel hungry soon after, do an experiment:  try using a portion size, which is 2 tablespoons. You might be surprised at how this fills you up. In addition, the protein and the fat in the peanut butter will slow down the absorption of the carbs in the bread.

We all know that eating carbs leads to eating more carbs and wanting more. That’s why fat is so fabulous—fat doesn’t cause a rise in the hormone, insulin.

One last detour: I want to mention Weight Watchers, because most women I know (including me) have been on Weight Watchers at some point in their lives. Weight Watchers, in essence, counts calories via points. I know it has morphed over the years, but I think Weight Watchers has contributed to the “fear of fat”.  I still hear, “That’s just too many points”, when I suggest getting an extremely high-quality olive oil and using more than a teaspoon on a salad.  Many of my clients over fifty find that Weight Watchers no longer works for them. Again, it’s not a calorie issue, it’s what those calories are made out of.

So, between the low-fat era, and Weight Watchers we are paralyzed to add fat. I say, let’s stop the madness!  If you are stuck and unable to lose weight, try an experiment: Cut the processed carbs. Add some healthy fat. Initially, measure a serving size of fat so you understand how much you’re eating. You might be very surprised at the results!

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I have not tried this recipe yet, but will make it for my small Thanksgiving of four people. This week, The New York Times Food Section was filled with recipes and suggestions for smaller gatherings. I happen to LOVE Melissa Clark’s recipes so I’m excited for this one!


3 tablespoons maple syrup

Large pinch of ground cayenne or chile powder

2 tablespoons unsalted butter, cut into ½ -inch cubes

½ teaspoon kosher salt

¼ teaspoon black pepper

Large pinch of coriander seeds

1 pound winter squash, such as dumpling, delicata or butternut, halved, seeded and sliced into ½ -inch thick (you don’t have to peel it)

Fresh lime juice, for serving

1 tablespoon chopped fresh sage leaves, for serving


Heat oven to 425 degrees. If you like, line a rimmed baking pan with parchment paper or foil. (It’s not necessary but will prove helpful when cleaning up.)

In a small pot over medium-high heat, combine maple syrup and cayenne in a small pot. Bring to a simmer and let cook until it reduces by a third, 1 to 3 minutes. Add butter and let it melt. Turn off heat and mix in salt, pepper and coriander.

Spread the squash out on the pan and spoon maple mixture over the pieces, turning them to coat. Roast until the pieces begin to soften, 15 minutes. Turn the squash pieces over and roast until glazed and tender, 10 to 20 minutes more. Drizzle lime juice and scatter sage leaves over the top for serving.

(recipe found on

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Well, we all made it through the election and we’re still standing!

Putting politics aside, I am so impressed with the record-breaking millions and millions of Americans (on both sides), who came out to vote!  In the middle of a pandemic, both grassroots movements and established entities needed to come up with a different plan. And they did! I live in NY State and this was the very first time that we were allowed to vote early in a presidential election. Obtaining an absentee ballot was also, very easy. While I voted on election day, many friends and clients waited on line for hours, while others mailed in their ballots. In all cases, people were motivated to make their voices heard. This happened all across the country and it left me feeling incredibly inspired.

If we look at the country as a whole, we can say with certainty that the country made it happen for itself. Just look at those voting numbers! We can now do the same on a much smaller scale. Take a breath and pause to see how you can make things happen for yourself. Don’t wait until January 1, 2021 to set a “resolution”, that you can make right now. If you’re exercise regimen has gone out the window in the pandemic, push yourself to try an on-line zoom class; reach out to the nutritionist you’ve been wanting to contact; create a support system with a friend to keep you on-track for consistent walking or healthier eating; commit to being persistent with drinking more water, or stretching, or drinking less alcohol, or reducing sugar. The time is now!

On a personal note, most of you know how much I HATE the winter and despise the cold weather.  Yes, I have a bad attitude about it, which never serves me well. Every year, when the weather gets chilly, I sadly put my bike away and say goodbye to it until the spring. This year I said, “NO!”, and vowed to change my attitude. For the first time, I adopted the philosophy of Billy Connolly, who said “There’s no such thing as bad weather – only the wrong clothes.” So, I invested in some warm bike clothing and have been out for rides on VERY chilly days. I will ride as long as I can, and appreciate each and every ride where I push myself to get out and do it. You can do the same!

Thanks to all of you Americans, who inspired me!

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